What sent me looking for and ultimately finding this forum was that I was having tremendous ET over my therapist and the fact that she is in the habit of wearing very short mini skirts and dresses made the ET all that much worse. Well because I came here and got encouragement I was able to tell T how I found her way of dressing to be a distraction and a bit unprofessional. I never discuss therapy or my therapist with my husband, thus this conversation about her way of dressing has never occurred with hubby. Until TODAY.
Later this evening I asked him for his on sight and limited perceptions of T and what transpired. OK OK.... so he says, "I got the impression she was trying to flirt with me, she did not even LOOK at YOU, she was intently focused on me and fidgeting with her dress giving me an upshot the whole time". I think she has serious sexual frustration issues, tries to draw attention to her sexuality by putting it completely out there and I find it very tawdry." OMG! Not only am I cracking up laughing over this because this is my reality every single week despite telling her how her dressing used to make me feel. Now I just get to see what color underwear she is wearing every week. She's got them in a plethora of colors.
Oh how I love my T and my hubby even more. My reality just got very validated today.