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Everything TN has written is true.

AND

You are not a failure. You are not "the problem." It sounds like you just haven't found a good match yet. Write your list of questions. You are hiring a T. Interview some. When I was looking for current T, I also met with several before finally going back to the first T I talked with. Some of the Ts were a little surprised when I interrupted their history taking and actually took control of the session. It was hugely important for me to find a good T and I didn't want to go through some niceties and get-to-know-you or get a month of sessions over with before asking crucial questions. It was tricky, because they all were nice. Nice is good. It's not enough.

Keep trying MC. It is SO worth it.

-RT

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