Reply to "what does dependency on your T mean?"

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Liese and SD, thanks for replying. how does it feel? how do you KNOW you're dependent? ugh! it just makes me crazy to feel SO vulnerable to another human being! to feel like i NEED somebody (ESPECIALLY somebody via a professional relationship, where you pay them and you are the client and the boss), and then how do you even resolve that??? how do you arrive at the point where you say "ok, we've accomplished what i came here for, thanks alot! bye!". i mean,uh, this is a REAL relationship! HELLO!?!?

i know i just fight this whole business so much. feeling a little pathetic, not in a terrible way so don't worry about that comment too much

sorry for being so scattered. this is really a struggle for me. the light-bulb will eventually turn on.

7/13/137:31 PM

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