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Hey that’s great news Beebs. Better late than never as they say. And it’s wonderful that T’s email to you was so positive and, to use AG’s very apposite word, affirming. You’ve struggled and struggled with this back and forth dichotomy, good T/bad T and all the time obviously felt that he wasn’t a bad T at all, now you have something concrete and tangible to support your own feelings.

I’m sorry you’re feeling all the pain of loss now – but again, as AG has already beautifully said, not all pain is bitter, and it sounds like you’ve now been freed to just let go. The whole notion of it’s all being something wrong with you (or with him) has plugged your grief and now the stopper’s out. This is a BIG step forward for you ((((((( Beebs ))))))

Oh lol, I expect you might find yourself plunged back into wondering whether you can’t pick up again with him. But that’s to think about for another day maybe. I am really so pleased for you

10/17/1110:29 AM

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