Reply to "Ups and Downs- updated- session"

strummergirlMember

quote:
Why do I miss him *so* much, all of a sudden like this? It's like it just hit me, so hard. I want so badly to write to him, beg him to respond to me...anything. I feel like I have a parent who used to love me, that has completely disowned me!

(((((((((((((Beebs))))))))))))) This is EXACTLY how I felt about my former T, and even more so about my ex-BF. I am so sorry you are feeling this. It is such an awfully sad and painful place to be. I wish I could tell you I've worked through it completely. I haven't. BUT. I do know that the answers do NOT lie with my former T, or my ex-BF. I've been told that those feelings most likely have to do with the losses I experienced as a child. I can only continue to believe that until I make the connection for myself. And I'm willing to believe it for now, because I KNOW I can't get any help from the other two, and any attempts would only hurt me (and possibly others) further.

Gotta run for now - biggest hugs to you sweetie

Love,
SG

10/13/1111:00 AM

<ul id="{%=id%}ButtonGroup" class="button-group h-popup-buttons even-button-group even-1">
    <li id="{%=id%}Okay_buttonContainer"><a id="{%=id%}Okay" href="javascript:void(0);" class="button success no-margin-bottom h-alert-modal-ok-button" role="button">OK</a><script type="text/javascript">
        (function() {
            function {%=id%}Okay_click(event, data) {
            {%=id%}Popup.hide();
        }
        
                $('#{%=id%}Okay').on('click', {%=id%}Okay_click);
        })();
    </script></li></ul><a href="javascript:void(0);" class="close-reveal-modal" aria-label="Close Modal">&#215;</a><div class="last-modal-focus focus-utility-element" tabindex="0"></div>
</div>
<script type="text/javascript">
        (function() {
            {%=id%}Popup = new SS.Popup.ModalPopup('{%=id%}');
        })();
    </script>

Skip to main content

Membership Required

Remove From Your Block List

Manage Follow Preferences

Block

Premium Membership Required

Be a Patron Member

Get psychotherapy help to make your therapy easier and better.

Please wait...