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Ironically, if my former T would have been capable of giving me the kind of closure I needed, he would have been capable of giving me the therapy I needed, too. I can look back and say, he's probably been a really good T for some folks. But he definitely did not have what I needed.

(((BB))) I agree with what SG wrote above and also with everything said so far. I know this is so painful for you, but I really think the closure will come from the continued work that you do and through the progress that you are making and not from your old T. I really don't think he can give you what you are looking for and if he could I think he would have already done it as SG said.

You are making progress and I think these growing pains will prove to be really important. Cowboy T is there in a way that can really help you sort through all of this. It will get better.

10/13/117:28 AM

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