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Originally posted by River:
I would be really confused too. Perhaps inviting you to his performance was a momentary lack of judgement on his part and he realized that when you called him later. It is a huge bummer that he did that and put you in a weird painful place when otherwise you would be moving on by now. Even if feelings are mutual between therapist and client a therapist has an ethical obligation to hold the boundaries and not blur the lines. Inviting you to see him outside the office seems like blurring of the boundaries that he is trying to pull back from. It is very very unfortunate that he did that and now you have to suffer. Protect yourself. He sounds like trouble.