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stuckbetweenrockandhardplaceMember

Hi Blackbird,

Thank you for all the support. Today has been the roughest day so far. I had to leave work because I couldn't keep it together. I have definately bottomed out. I don't have anymore appointments set up with my T but once one is setup, I will be spilling everything. I can't just keep living like this.

I have been seeing a different T about it, and yes, it IS out of avoidance.

I'm really scared that I won't make it through this pain or that my marriage won't survive. My stability is the glue of the marriage. For the past 3 months I have put on an Oscar winning performance but as of this week, I can no longer act like I'm on top of the world when I have never been so hurt in my life.

Thank you again.

2/11/1112:32 PM

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