quote:But with my old T,once transference got its feet under the table with her,all of it stopped with other people.why is that? anyone know? how come I'm not like it with lots of people ,but only have one person that i have these feelings with?It is a bit odd really.......Hmmmmmmmm
I think because when it was with other people outside therapy, it was mainly fantasy, in our heads, with a therapist we get to voice the feelings and get REAL responses and caring.