Reply to "Transference II"

sprintinggalMember

Charlotte,
I agree with JM and AG, this was not your fault. It sounds to me like he is not equipped to deal with your feelings in a "safe" manner and that he MAY have taken advantage of your feelings at some point had you stayed his client, which would have been extremely damaging to you.

Do not blame yourself or abuse yourself in response to this situation. Your feelings are nothing to be ashamed of. Keep talking to us and getting it all out there.

I have to quote JM: "what he is recommending is apparently for your protection and best interest. An act of love and kindness you may have never experienced before even though it is not what you want. "

11/5/0811:57 AM

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