Reply to "Transference II"

justme 2Member

Charlotte,

I am so so so sorry for what happened and how devastated you truly must be. But he did say it is not because you did anything wrong and he did give you some referrals to female therapists. As he understands the depth of your transference better than anybody else I think you should trust him, but I know how very difficult this is on you. I hope that you are able to get in to see another therapist very soon! Can it be this week? You need some interference on these intense emotions and someplace very safe to go. Charlotte what he is recommending is apparently for your protection and best interest. An act of love and kindness you may have never experienced before even though it is not what you want.

This is not your fault! It is not because you are "having transference wrong." It is because of his limitations as to which he is humbly and honestly admitting to -as he should.
A GOOD therapist only expressess unselfish love.

I am still here if you need to talk,

JM

11/5/0810:48 AM

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