I just want to say Affinity, that maybe it doesn't matter if your T finds you attractive or not, since nothing will come of it one way or the other. It's therapy and YOUR feelings are the ones that matter. Trying to figure out how attracted your T might be to you is kind of a distraction, just like sexual fantasies about your T could be a distraction from the real work you need to do in therapy.

Here's another article that might be helpful for you: http://istdpinstitute.com/2013...bout-sex-in-therapy/