Yes (well, actually the counseling center T sees me through), once to see what sort of information about his background (specialties, degrees, etc.) he provided, because I didn't want to ask directly. Another time, I tried to see if any sites had reviews on him, because I was blaming him for breaking my coping mechanisms. Once to show my oldest sister what he looked like, because hubby decided it was funny to start making sex jokes about me and T (who he sees separately) and she started joining in...so I wanted to show her that it was really more of a parent dynamic there. I have been tempted to go look at the site to see his reassuring smile when we've had to skip, but I'm still pretty ashamed of my transference stuff, so I usually control that sort of thing.