Smiley... I am so sorry you have not heard from your T. Is this typical of her? I just don't know enough about your T to figure out what's going on with her. Has this happened with you and her before?

Smiley there was nothing wrong in you reaching out to get your needs met. You have every right to do so and it was a very positive step. What is wrong is what your T has done in not responding in some way to your need for connection.

I think you have said you are with her for a long time? I don't want to add another burden for you but could it be helpful to you to see another T? Maybe someone with fresh eyes to your situation would be more responsive and more helpful in assisting you with your healing and progress. Sometimes a different approach is needed and not all Ts can be all things. I know in my own situation my oldT could never do what I needed him to do and my newT is simply amazing in being able to provide what I need and yearn for.

It's good that you come here to express your frustration with your T and what she is doing. I'm so glad you are keeping us updated. I do hope you hear something soon.

Best,
TN