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Reply to "Another physical boundary discussion"

That was a lovely story. Smiler Your T sounds really nice!

I wish all therapists were open minded about the concept of hugs.

I have a friend who is in therapy right now and he has a very scared, inner child that comes out quite often. He says that to help him heal, all his inner child wants is a heartfelt hug, something he didn't get much when he was younger. It frustrates him that his therapist does not do touch.

I think touch should be initiated or considered when the patient is known to the therapist better and vica versa. It's a very individual basis thing.

I would love to hug my therapist, but my mind will most definitely misconstrue it as a sexual thing and probably want something more to happen, so though I sort of would like it, I don't at the same time. I'm one of those patients who gets 'erotic transference' mixed up with dependence and regular attachment.

I don't think your T is being unprofessional. I didn't see a problem in her accepting your hug. Like you said, if it's helping and she allows it and is not uncomfortable with it, no problem. Smiler
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