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I think I made a bit of a breakthrough in therapy last week. Whew! We were at an impasse for a while and I finally came to some insight. T was impressed and said that she thought we did good work in that session.
One of my problems is...the need for approval...
here is a website I stumbled upon with more info on that if anyone wants to read it...
http://www.livestrong.com/arti...e-need-for-approval/
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That's cool that you managed to figure that out!

Need for approval has been a big issue for me as well. I figured out two things about it:

1. Part of wanting approval for me was keep everyone so distracted with how great I was, so that nobody would find out who I really was. There was an underlying shame thing going on there.

2. Having a good attachment with my T has helped an amazing amount with this. Since I have her care and regard no matter what I do or don't do, I can stop bending over backwards to get approval.

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