I am divorced (1 1/2 yrs now) I have a 6 yr old boy and a 3 yr old girl. We have a good working relationship, we get along for the kids and are co-parenting as best we can, we do not fight. Many times when it's time to come to my house, my son wants to stay with is dad and my daughter always wants to stay with me, she doesn't want to go to her dad's house. we usually make them go because I always thought it was best to keep them together but now I'm wondering if I'm doing this wrong and I should let them choose....? any thoughts?