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AG,
IT IS NICE TO MEET YOU! I HOPE THAT WE CAN TALK MORE. YOU SEEM LIKE MY KIND OF GIRL...I WENT THRU THE EXERCISE THING ABOUT 4 YEARS AGO...I WORK IN A HIGH SCHOOL AND WAS ASHAMED OF MY WEIGHT WITH ALL THOSE PRETTY LITTLE TEENAGE GIRLS AROUND. I WEIGHED ABOUT 300 POUNDS (292.5) TO BE EXACT...I BEGAN TO EXERCISE 30 MINUTES AND SWIMMING 30 LAPS IN THE POOL EVERYDAY. I ATE ONLY MEAT AND VEGTABLES, AND I LOST 85 POUNDS IN ABOUT 15 MONTHS. I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN BY FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND IT KEEPS YOUR MOMENTOM GOING...WHEN I FIRST STARTED, I COULD ONLY EXERCISE 5-7 MINUTES AND SWIM 1 LAP AND REST...BUT EVERYDAY I PRESSED HARDER AND HARDER TO GET TO MY GOAL...WHICH WAS TO BE UNDER 200 POUNDS BY CHRISTMAS...IT WAS MY PRESENT TO MYSELF..I WEIGHED 204 ON CHRISTMAS MORNING...I WAS HURT AND DISAPOINTED...BUT IT KEPT ME FROM OVEREATING CHRISTMAS DAY...AND EVEN THOUGH I NEVER GOT UNDER 200 POUNDS...I AM VERY PROUD OF WHAT I ACCOMPLISHED BY MYSELF AND THE DIFERENCE IT MADE IN ME. I WENT FROM A SIZE 24/26 TO A 14/16...I NOW WEIGH 225...I HAVE GAINED 20 POUNDS SINCE ALL THIS MEDICAL STUFF AND THE THERAPY AND THE TRANSFERENCE AND THE MARRIAGE PROBLEMS...I GET DEPRESSED AND EAT...BUT I HAVE BEGAN THIS WEEK TO CUT BACK AND NOT DIET, BUT BE AWARE OF WHAT I EAT. I WANT TO GET MY MARRIAGE BACK TOGETHER THE WAY IT USED TO BE...I WANT TO WORK THIS OUT WITH MY T, AND I WANT TO BEAT THIS PROBLEM THAT I HAVE WITH MY BODY...I FIGURE IF I START WITH MYSELF...THE REST WILL FOLLOW...I WAS SO AMAZED THAT YOU WROTE ME THIS...I GUESS WE HAVE ALOT IN COMMON HUH?... I AM PREPING MYSELF FOR THE THE SESSION TOMORROW, AND HOPE I CAN CARRY THRU WITH MY PLAN TO TELL HIM. I HAVE TO GET THRU THIS, I THINK ABOUT HIM WAY TOO MUCH, I IMAGINE HIM WITH ME IN BED, HIM IN THE CAR WITH ME, AND HIM EVERYWHERE, BUT IT HAS TO STOP...AND I PLAN TO START THE PROCESS TOMORROW!!!...WISH ME LUCK...I WILL DEFINITLEY LET YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS....AND I'M GLAD I MET YOU HERE...EVERYONE IS SO KIND...BUT YET WE ARE ALL SO "THE SAME"...CHARLOTTE
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