I've been in T for almost a year now and I still don't know if I can call my T by her first name or not. I don't think we ever use each others names. I did write her a few e-mails here and there and I addressed them to Dr. XXX but she responded with her e-mail stamp thing so I really don't know. We've never talked about it. I use her first name when I talk about going to see her though. I feel like we should be on a first name basis with all the stuff I tell her!