GG - I think you would need to clarify what she meant if she said you have no relationship because its not what you've posted previously or very recently. It was as little as a week ago you shared how close you felt afyer telling her how you felt about her being cold and uncaring.

of course there is a relationshio there - but it might not be the kind you badly ache for - ie if you wanted a relationship outside the rooms it Wouldn't be ethical for her to agree to that. If you wanted a relationship where she shared her inner most feelings with you, it wouldnt be appropriate either.

can you articulate further what is is you want and what she has said isn't possible? It might help you work out what you DO and CAN have. Its not a black or white Thing I dont think - its not either or.