Reply to "Has your T promised never to terminate?"

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He's been careful not to promise what he can't promise -- to always be there. This actually makes me trust him more, not less

BG, I know exactly what you mean about not getting promises being more comforting to you. My T2 doesn't give promises and in a way, its sort of reassuring. I guess perhaps because if and when she does term me, I won't look back at broken promises and feel betrayed. Whereas if T1 were to term me after all of her promises...I'd be so crushed and it would really affect my ability to believe anything anyone promises to me in the future.

6/21/119:02 PM

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