Reply to "Abandonment Day"

avoidantMember

Hi (((TN)))

Thank you for posting this today; and I'm only sorry that you've had to experience this as well.

Your post is very poignant for me too this week; as this coming Friday it will be exactly one year since I was abandoned in similar circumstances

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I also want to mention that I refuse to call what happened a termination. Termination from therapy implies a process whereby it is discussed, you have a discussion about the referrals provided and there is an orderly transition to a new T with no harm being done to the client. Where the client is given a reason for the termination and is allowed to express their feelings and are heard. None of that happened for me. What happened is that I was abandoned

Absolutely!! None of that happened for me either I'm sorry to say.

I'm just thankful that you; ((SD)), and myself, have all found wonderful new T's to help us over these awful abandonments.

AV

8/12/1410:17 AM

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